JJB, Jilla was talking about Names though, not Birthdays.

I found a site and did my name. This is my current name…(in blue is my comments)

Your number is: 1

The characteristics of #1 are: Initiating action, pioneering, leading, independent, attaining, individual.

The expression or destiny for #1:

A number 1 Expression denotes the skilled executive with keen administrative capabilities. You must develop the capacity to be a fine leader (I would never call myself a leader), sales executive, or promoter. You have the tools to become an original person with a creative approach to problem solving, and a penchant for initiating action. Someone may have to follow behind you to handle the details, but you know how to get things going and make things happen. You have a good mind and the ability to use it for your advancement. Because of these factors, you have much potential for achievement and financial rewards. Frequently, this expression belongs to one running a business or striving to achieve a level of accomplishment on ones talents and efforts. You have little need for much supervision, preferring to act on your own with little restraint (I like to be supervised, I want that guidance) . You are both ambitious (I wouldnt call myself ambitious) and determined. Self-confident (LMAO – anyone that knows me is laughing too) and self-reliant must be yours, as you develop a strong unyielding will and the courage of your convictions.

Although you fear loneliness, you want to be left alone (i cant emphasize enough how much i HATE being alone). You fear routine and being in a rut (I THRIVE on routine). You often jump the gun because you are afraid of being left behind.

The negative attributes of the 1 Expression are egotism (i'm not even close to being egotistical) and a self-centered approach to life. This is an aggressive number and if it is over-emphasized it is very hard to live with. You do not have to be overly aggressive to fulfill your destiny. The 1 has a natural instinct to dominate and to be the boss; adhering to the concept of being number One. Again, you do not have to dominate and destroy in order to lead and manage.

Your Soul Urge number is: 3

A Soul Urge number of 3 means:

With the Soul Urge number 3 your desire in life is personal expression, and generally enjoying life to its fullest. You want to participate in an active social life and enjoy a large circle of friends. You want to be in the limelight (hate the limelight), expressing your artistic or intellectual talents. Word skills may be your thing; speaking, writing, acting, singing. In a positive sense, the 3 energy is friendly, outgoing and always very social.

You have a decidedly upbeat attitude that is rarely discouraged; a good mental and emotional balance (haha).

The 3 Soul Urge gives intuitive insight, thus, very high creative and inspirational tendencies. The truly outstanding trait shown by the 3 Soul Urge is that of self-expression, regardless of the field of endeavor.

On the negative side, you may at times become too easygoing and too optimistic (optimistic??? how funny is that), tending to scatter forces and accomplish very little. Often, the excessive 3 energy produces non-stop talkers (ok, this one is true haha). Everyone has faults, but the 3 soul urge doesn't appreciate having these pointed out.

Your Inner Dream number is: 7

An Inner Dream number of 7 means:

You dream of having the opportunity to read, study, and shut yourself off from worldly distractions. You can see yourself as a teacher, mystic, or ecclesiastic, spending your life in the pursuit of knowledge and learning. (while i work in a school its NOT my dream to be a teacher haha)

I havent done my maiden name to see what I was supposidly like before I married

Okay, I just read the little blurb under where you enter your name and IT says that you go by your birth

name, that changing your name (like when marrying) has no effect on it (which goes against what Jilla was

saying). I wont copy/paste the whole thing again, but using my Maiden Name was so far off of who I am /laugh.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />

This sums it up…

The number 8 is very materialistic and also very desirous of status and power. Neither of these drives are inherently negative unless they are taken to an extreme. You must avoid the tendency to strain after money, material matters, status, or power, to the detriment of the other important factors in your life.

That's about as far from me as you could EVER get /rolleyes.gif' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />

Not all sites are created equal, that's for certain, so I'm not talking about 'canned' numerology. And ultimately, whether we live up to our abilities or not is our responsibility.

That makes no sense to me then. That sounds like a convienient excuse they give if you dont "fit" the numbers.

If we have control over it all then what is the point of Numerology. We arent really "pre-destined" to be anything,

because we dont necissarily "live up to it" (ie: the reading is completely off)

That makes no sense to me then. That sounds like a convienient excuse they give if you dont "fit" the numbers.

If we have control over it all then what is the point of Numerology. We arent really "pre-destined" to be anything,

because we dont necissarily "live up to it" (ie: the reading is completely off)

EXACTLY …. I read that too and almost spit out my coffee. I mean … REALLY?

I guess it's the same as: RESULTS NOT TYPICAL … Results my vary.

I'm sorry about your twin /sad.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=';)' />

and I'll assume you were born in October /tongue.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=';)' />

The below is meant as "FOOD FOR THOUGHT" only.

As with anything, what is an acceptable rate of "Success" -vs- "Failure"???

Let me explain. I have a guy in a Yahoo! Group that "loves his Pendulum". But his success rate is less then 15% aka 85% failure. This was consistent, with several tests.

A guy 8 years ago claimed to be a "Medical Empath – Psychic". He literally haunted me for 5 years telling me I had serious Kidney Cancer. (He could not except the fact that he was wrong.) We later found his "Medical Empath" success rate was less then 10%.

I have a friend that is into Astrology. His charts for me, my wife and children has been wrong a whole lot more time than not.

I ask friends this question: If you were asked to invest your hard earned $$ into this, with the expectation for a real RETURN with your invested $$ …>> would you? Or is this an 'emotional drug'? Where one looks for a "good feeling" only?

I posted it this way in another forum:

The "Subjective Psychic" or … (this) -- is it any better then 'drug pushers'.

I mean this, except that obviously they are not selling drugs – but they do 'sell' something that more people then not get addicted to: FEELINGS – specifically – 'Feel Better About Yourself' or the FBAY-FIX.

Like drugs this "fix" is a very temporary and thus they more then not go to find another "Subjective Psychic" to give them another "Fix".

In other words, they 'sell' emotional highs, nothing more and a whole lot less!

There is a very common line that proves this point:

• "If this FEELS right to you – it's for you. If not, it's not." (or similar phrases.)