The reason that I don't wish to discuss what happened is because there are two sides to every story (please see my blog He Said/She Said) – including this one. I made what I felt was the right decision for me; however, who knows how clearly I see things right now. I detest drama and I don't want to be a part of it. Everyone has a story and no one is perfect – including me. I believe that I have behaved with integrity. I don't want people to decide they have to take a side. Sometimes goals are incompatible. That is what happened in this case. There are no villains or saints here. To make it anything else is to disrespect Wellington, its ghosts and the people who have dedicated their lives to investigating it.

I read your blog the other day, how true!

I'm glad you chose this road, as I detest reading the drama on the forums.

This year there has been so much of it, sometimes I just log out of the forum. I'm not a side taker anyway. I think the point or purpose gets lost when that is done, and the point should be paranormal, not drama, imo.

Whether it be Wellington, or any other paranormal topic.

Short form if you think about, people are fighting about the dead. Lacks respect imo, and I hope most

are looking to move the paranormal field forward, so what's the point. Negativity gets no where.

I think about Jack's quotes at times like these from As Good As It Gets.

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I hope when and if Karen, you and the group decide to work on Wellington you will keep us updated.

I won't lie and say I'm not bummed about this. I was really looking forward to it.

I got introduced to a location (Wellington) that I knew nothing about and was fascinated with the history and location. I felt bad for the peoples loss at Wellington, and what they went through. I realize I'll probably never get to Wellington, but if the chance ever arises to visit I will say a prayer and remember those who lost their lives.