The Great Divide
by Karen Frazier, Managing Editor
Paranormal Underground Magazine
As paranormal television proliferates and ghost hunting groups spring up like the dandelions in my lawn or pieces of laundry in my “laundry mountain” (let’s not go there), it seems that there is a divide that is widening in the paranormal community. One one edge of the divide, you have those who are extremely serious about what they do. They investigate the paranormal. The focus of the serious investigators may run a gamut from extremely scientific to extremely intuitive – but they take what they do with an air of seriousness and solemnity that arises out of a sense of responsibility to both the living and the dead. On the other side is the paranormal entertainment crowd. They look at the paranormal as a way to amuse themselves – whether by watching it on television, reading about it in the proliferation of paranormal books and websites, watching scary movies, getting a chill listening to EVPs, or heading out to haunted places and cemeteries for a walk-through to try and have some experiences.
I have to admit – I’ve been on both sides of the divide. There is a part of the paranormal that is most definitely entertainment. I’ve watched the shows. I’ve read the books. I used to listen to EVPs because they creeped me out and entertained me. I’ve also come to realize the responsibility that I personally have as a paranormal journalist in presenting the very serious aspects of the paranormal, as well. Once I experienced a true connection with something that haunts, it became less about going to haunted places for a thrill, and more about needing to a) understand what was truly happening; and, b) trying to make sure that if some entity has contacted me, I behave in a responsible and compassionate manner in order to try and learn why that entity chose to show itself to me and learn what the entity needs from me.
That’s my story, and it is how my involvement in the paranormal has evolved. That doesn’t mean that it is necessarily the “right” evolution. It is mine and mine alone. My experience, my focus and why I am now involved in the things that I am. Every single person who reads my words will have a different focus, and different mission, a different level of involvement and a different belief system than I do. What each of us brings to the paranormal is unique.
I’ll quickly apologize to the cat lovers out there – but there is more than one way to skin a cat. (How on EARTH did that ever become an expression???)
Whatever your level of involvement in the paranormal – whether you enjoy a good spooky paranormal television show or whether you are a serious investigator – you are following a path that is unique to you. For some the paranormal is serious business. For some it is fun. For some it is BS. You decide where you fall on the spectrum and follow it from there. In many cases, you may start out at one end of the spectrum and follow your path straight to the other end. That was certainly my experience; however, that doesn’t mean it has to be yours.
I respect where people choose to fall on that spectrum as being right for you. You may notice that at Paranormal Underground, we try to have a little bit of information for everyone, no matter where they fall on the spectrum. We understand that for some it is entertainment and for some it is serious business. And that’s okay. Because in the end, each of you brings a unique perspective and experiences that can contribute to the conversation.
I tend to be a big picture kind of person. To that end, I see the growing interest in the paranormal – whether as serious investigation or merely for entertainment purposes – as a good thing. All of it. Because what I really see happening is this: People are beginning to contemplate who and what they are beyond just their flesh and blood. And that, in my humble opinion, is the first step in recognizing that we are all far more vast than our physical experience allows us to understand. If we, as humans, begin to contemplate our existence as souls, then maybe – just maybe – the next step is that we begin to relate to one another as souls. More kindly. More compassionately. Whether that arises from watching a television show, traipsing through a grave yard or seriously investigating the paranormal, I’m all for it.

To me it’s a hobby, pure and simple. It’s a way to hang out with friends and to get out of the house for a while. It has it’s moments like EMS: hours of boredom with a few seconds of excitement. It mostly depends on the investigation on how serious we are. For example we just had another investigation last month, it was put together at my sister’s house where we have investigated before. We hadn’t done anything over the summer and the Myrtles back in May was our last time together. We did this one very relaxed.
How relaxed? There was a margarita machine going in the kitchen/command post.
We wanted a no-stress case where we could relax (most of us didn’t do any drinking) and just have fun. I have to say we had our best results. I’m finishing up on the evidence review but we had personal experiences and plenty of audio evidence to support my sister’s claims. One EVP is the clearest of any that I have heard before.
Now on the other hand when we are at client’s residences that need help we are very serious but we still cut up and joke some. It’s stress relief, pure and simple. We are there to help people and we will do our best.
I don’t really care how other groups perform, unless there is something that will help my group out, mainly in techniques or something like that. It’s their group, their rules. Now if I could only get a certain place for a night then we’ll have to invite another group to help out.
Still you can be serious and have fun at the same time but you need to know when to flip the switch and when not to.
I have been at this for a long time. I guess you will always have people that run on both sides of the divide and that goes for anything. As for the TV shows, the paranormal has great entertainment value that shouldn’t be ignored. I myself tend to walk on both sides but I tend to walk on the serious side more often. However, far be it from me to criticize someone for having fun. I personally feel I must be informed in all aspects of the paranormal in order to honestly pursue the interests I have.
Yes, I have my own beliefs and opinions and will voice them now and again but I like to think my opinions are informed ones. Although I am not a fan of the shows they do show me what a large portion of the community does believe. That is very helpful when you may have to deal with someone who is asking for help and only has TV knowledge of the paranormal. Not understanding where they stand might just jeopardize your relationship with a client before it begins. For me, I literally practice, “Knowledge is Power”. Plain disregard for anything in the paranormal because you don’t believe or don’t like it, just doesn’t make sense to me. However, I understand that people must do what they must, for their own satisfaction.
I think it may be quite some time before we can all work from the same page yet keep our own beliefs, etc. Getting people to even adjust their belief system calls for some concessions most times and I don’t see that happening any time soon.
So, I think everyone will go their own route for a while. The serious and the curious. Which is fine because diversity is what makes things go round.
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